So much ranting and venting going on.... And I get it. I've done it. I had many years of having a 'victim' mode mentality. "Why me. Why is this happening to me. I guess I'm stuck this way, with 'this' -whatever 'this' is." And there was a LOT of this! "I guess I'll always feel sad, depressed, anxious..". Ick.
What I have learned along the way is that when you focus on the problem... not only do you continue to see the problem, you get MORE OF the problem.
When we continually throw out there what we don't want, what we're tired of, what is bothering us, what we hate, what we can't stand... We will continue to draw that, bring that, into our life experiences. It is that true and it is that simple.
When you begin focusing on what you DO want and REVEL in that, you begin seeing and feeling and experiencing what you DO want. You begin seeing Solutions! Life gets really interesting and fascinating and fun. Not kidding for a minute on this!
In order to have what you DO want, you have to begin saying, thinking, and feeling what you DO want, and begin knowing it is possible. You absolutely have got to go there. Again and again and again. IF you don't believe this is possible? Yep, you guessed it, you won't believe it's possible.
BUT WHAT IF IT IS POSSIBLE! -hint, hint: I'm telling you, it is. :)
Possible? Aren't you the least bit curious? Helping my clients move in the direction of where they WANT to go, how they WANT to be, and how they would LIKE to feel is one of my absolute joys of coaching. There is a deep love and exhilaration, that is beyond description, to be felt for all of us. Really. Don't you want to revel in that? xo